Being happy is the goal of all living people. No one wants to live a hard and sad life, many things are done to achieve one word that is “Happy”. However, the definition of happiness between one person and another person must be different. Some can be happy with doing simple things, some even want to be happy to spend a lot of money.
Happy is the mindset of ourselves, but why people do not realize it. Happy is really simple. When wealth, power, achievement is not able to make yourself feel happy then contemplate some of the writing that I will discuss below.
Look at the environment around us, many people who are in a state of lack and poor ability to make themselves happy. The happiness that arises does not have to require at a certain target level. I’ll be happy “if already have a house. Car, the spouse, have enough savings “why you delay your own happiness which means that you are prolonging your sadness.
So decide from now that you should be happy. Be happy is yourself, you alone are responsible. Indeed our mindset that determines whether we are happy or not is not a factor from the outside but from the deepest heart. Stop blaming circumstances and the environment when you cannot achieve happiness.
Some people who take ownership of things that are physical and material as a standard of happiness. Unfortunately, it will be temporary and not lasting until the end of life. Set a happy standard above the physical, make sense of happiness as if it were a climax that far and never can be achieved.
If we require a standard of happiness to a state, then surely it will not be happy in some other circumstance. Make yourselves to be able to feel happiness under any circumstances. Those who are always looking for happiness outside of themselves will always feel that happiness belongs to someone else. If we are a good person to be grateful for what we have got then our heart will be close to happiness.
However, if we are the people who always reject the circumstances that happen to us, especially when the situation is not in accordance with what we expect then we will find ourselves as difficult people to feel happy. Now it’s up to you when you decide to be happy.
There are some people who think that happy if we can make people happy. More giving affection, attention, help, and anything that can ease the burden and suffering of others. Many ways we can do to be happy so do not delay to be happy.