One’s happiness is determined by the ability to accept things, to see situations from a positive point of view, to live the meaning of life experience, to give up his experience as a change in life, and to break away from the shackles of emotional experience.
But unknowingly we often postpone our own happiness with the thought: ‘If I have any money. I will be happy’ . Or ‘If I have a job like a i’m definitely happy.
Everyone has their own assumptions about the meaning of happiness. Most of them assume that happiness is gained when we have to work hard first, then succeed, then we are happy so we always feel if happy is the final goal and difficult to achieve. Though the assumption is wrong, happy, not complicated, happy is simple.
Everyone, of course, has its own perspective about what happy life is like. Each has thoughts and actions that are different from the others. For me personally, the definition of happy life is simple, that is life with feeling calm, peace, and no worries.The perception that develops today, more often means that happiness is to have a lot of money/assets, then there is also a mean if happy if we have a harmonious family, or also happy if we do not often sickly.
Many people who want to be happy in this world, but to this day have not felt the real happy. They assume that happiness is when you are rich, if you already have a high position, when married, if you have children, if you already have title bachelor, if you have everything and if other. Happy they are many conditions and also many wants, want a nice and comfortable.
Generally, occurs in an affair. Do not let your selfishness control your partner’s attitude and life. If he is doing things that are not in accordance with your wishes, a deep disappointment will surely you feel. Therefore, avoid this in order to achieve a happy life.